normally i dont give a shit about this kind of stuff but my skills of observation just wont quit.
its funny how amber rose is catchin heat for fuckin with somebody other than kanye….
but i dont see shit said about that vashtie chick or erykah badu. matter of fact all i see when them bitches are posted is how much mother fuckers love em when its a well known fact they been with more rappers than the wu tang clan has members.
Steve Harvey’s bestselling relationship advice books and a plethora of other books of the same genre have been mega popular lately. Telling women the tips and tricks on how to get,keep, and even please a man. They generally start off with a self analysis, a “breakdown” on a woman’s flawed personality and their destructive relationship habits.” I myself was a reader of these books, up until recent post on twitter, not from any particular followers, but just general tweets from my male followers guiding us (women) on how to treat a man and criticizing our quirky (sometimes bat-shit crazy) ways as woman, even to go as far as scrutinizing our sex lives. (thats another post lol)
my questions are: why are all these targeted at women?? why are we the ones who are in dire need of help? where are the books addressing men and their fucked up ways? why is this shit so one-sided?
now i dont wanna sound like the angry black woman, because hell i read those books and i be like ” damn i DO DO that..smh” so i am not saying us women dont need the help BUT we not gonna sit here and act like men dont do their own handful of shit.
lets leave it at this: men need to wake the hell up too… yall dont put out or shell out for every girl you meet, and you damn sure not bending over backwards over a girl you just dont know like that, so stop expecting the same. women are human, we have insecurities and we have hyper-emotions… DEAL WITH IT… because we have to deal with YOUR ego, YOUR insecurities and YOUR (sometimes) in-sensitive behavior. Men should start asking what it is they should be doing in order to catch a glimpse of a woman’s greatness. What kind of work should you put in to get the best of me?
As a woman, im tired of these effing books and/or twitter rants, because hell most of them are written by single women or men who come off sounding more bitter than helping. so whats the logic here?
I say: have fun, we’re young, when you find that person worth more than your time, then it will work out accordingly… all these rules and regulations, what to say, what not to do… doesnt matter…