“The Players I have worked with sometimes claim to suffer from “sex addiction,” and join Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous (which they may discover is a good place to pick up women). But sex addiction doesn’t cause dishonesty, verbal abusiveness, or intimidating behavior. The Player is not a sex addict at all. If he is addicted to anything, it’s to the thrill of using women without regard for the effects on them.”— Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men by Lundy Bancroft (via thelifeoflives)
things life is too short for: - hating yourself - pretending to laugh at “jokes” that are actually just bigoted statements - not singing along to your favorite songs - waiting hours to text someone back just to look cool - bad coffee - bad books - mean people - body shaming - letting other people dictate your life - larry’s storyline
A twelve-year-old can be walking up the street in a thong and bra and when someone tells her to dress her age you will accuse them of sexualizing her. I think everyone needs to think about what they are supporting just for the sake of “freedom of expression”.